Individuals with high-conflict personalities are recognizable because they have a habit of negative behavior. This behavior is characterized by a person’s “one extreme or the other” style of thinking, uncontrollable emotions, intense behavior, and a strong tendency to blame others for their mistakes. As a result, people with high-conflict personalities usually escalate conflicts instead of diffusing the situation, and when there is nothing left but ashes, they take no responsibility for the outcome.
Many people find this type of behavior surprising, ridiculous, and frustrating to deal with. But when they try to address the problems they are having with a high-conflict personality using tactics that work with reasonable people, they find that it only makes the situation worse. Here’s some examples of things to avoid:
Attempting to Change Their Perspective
You may have tried to share some insight into the individual’s own bad behavior by “making them see” or trying to “help them understand,” but this rarely works. It may seem hard to believe, but these individuals often times lack any sort of self-awareness, and your words simply go in one ear and out the other. As your words do nothing to change behavior, it is easy to become annoyed, and we sometimes change our own behavior to become more aggressive in a vain attempt to breakthrough. Your efforts to draw attention to this behavior will only work against you as their all-or-nothing attitude will immediately label you as a threat, no matter how delicately you express your thoughts.
Dwelling in the Past
People with high-conflict personalities often dwell in the past, focusing on defending their previous actions by blaming others. Instead of asking them about it and letting them get caught in a whirlwind of grousing, you should focus entirely on the future. Help them realize that they have options and that they don’t have to accept only one solution.
High-conflict personalities are sensitive to how others react and do not control their emotions very well. The best thing you can do when dealing with this type of person is stay calm and don’t let your own emotions get out of control. The human brain is wired to recognize and reciprocate strong emotions, and high-conflict people are more experienced at losing control of their emotions. That essentially means that they can get angrier than you, more frustrated than you, and if you get teary, they will bawl. They have a hard time adjusting their emotions when they become out-of-balance, so do your best to lead by example.
Calling Out Their Personality
In a fury of frustration, it is easy to lose track and go for cheap shots. Telling a high-conflict personality that they have a problem is guaranteed to cause more problems than solutions. Because of their defensive nature and knack for drama, your words will likely end up echoing in their brains for weeks or years, and every time you have to deal with that person, they will remember the words you said.
Craft beer has been a growing trend across the United States. Most bars pride themselves on having a selection of beers that are from local breweries and offer a different drinking experience. Although the craft brewing industry has been growing, on the whole, it is still difficult for these independent companies to break into the beer market. Not only is there a significantly high financial investment that goes into producing your own beers, but it is also difficult to compete with nationwide companies that dominate the market. Craft Brewing Business, an online resource that provides information to craft brewers, has taken a look at this phenomenon in a recent article about one state that has managed to break this standard.
According to the article, the “mega brewers” across the U.S. still have the upper hand in the national beer market. In 2016, Anheuser-Busch claimed 45% of the beer market and the top three brands include Bud Light, Budweiser, and Coors Light. Not only are these beers all produced on a mass scale, but they are able to provide their products to almost every grocery store and gas station in the nation. Craft brewers cannot seem to compete with these numbers, as the entire craft industry only made up 12% of the beer market in 2016. However, these numbers did not remain the same in the state of Vermont, who has a clear dedication to craft beer. All of Vermont’s top selling beers were craft beers, including brands such as Switchback Ale, the Alchemist’s Focal Banger, and the Alchemist’s Heady Topper. Each of these brands is produced by small, local breweries that have gained popularity across the state. This small state has been able to make a big difference in the craft brewing scene, and with any luck, other states will begin to follow suit.
Although craft beer may not be the most popular in every state, these small brews have begun to permanently change the beer market. These beers are given a high level of care during production and provide unique flavor combinations that national beers simply cannot manage. Craft breweries fit the American ideal of successful independent companies, and they are clearly here to stay. True beer fanatics swear by their favorite craft beers and will tell anyone who will listen that these are the real beers of America. Even though they cannot always compete with the national companies, craft breweries are still an important part of the beer industry.
For many people, one of the downsides of craft beers is their lack of wide-spread availability. However, companies like Growler Chill are helping to end this problem. Their product allows you to keep growlers of craft beer cold and fresh in your home for an extended period of time. They also provide an on-tap experience, from the comforts of your home, that will help you enjoy your beer exactly the way to want to. With companies like this, hopefully, the craft beer industry will continue to grow and enjoy widespread success.
Drowning is probably one of the worst accidents that can happen to you while in the water. The lack of oxygen and the inhalation of foreign particles from the water can result into various complications, including acute respiratory distress syndrome, aspiration pneumonia, and even permanent brain damage and death.
But how can a person drown? Below are some of the most common causes of drowning accidents.
Boating accidents may happen because of many reasons, such as boat operator recklessness or negligence, collision with foreign objects like corals, and natural events such as large waves and storms. Drowning from boating accidents usually happen because the boat has capsized or a boat passenger has been ejected into the water.
The accidents become worse if the boat operators do not provide safety gears, such as lifejackets.
Some drowning events can be prevented if the area has enough competent lifeguards. But sadly, there are instances where there are not enough lifeguards on duty or the lifeguards on duty are acting in a way that make them fail to do their jobs properly.
According to the website of the Indianapolis personal injury attorneys of the Hankey Law Office, P.C., nearly 20% of drowning deaths involving children occur in swimming pools where one or more certified lifeguards are on duty.
Speaking of swimming pools, owners should also be responsible to ensure their premises’ safety. Swimming pools should have fences to prevent accidental slipping and drowning. They should also be maintained to avoid defects in facilities and mold buildup. If the owners have failed to do these things and someone has been injured, they may be held accountable, because of the legal concept premises liability.
Swimmer Negligence or Recklessness
Boat operators, lifeguards, and swimming pool owners are not just the ones solely responsible for the safety of swimmers. Swimmers can get injured in an accident because of their own faults. The least they can do is to avoid reckless behaviors, such as swimming while intoxicated or speeding in a jet ski, and negligent behaviors, such as failing to supervise their children and disregarding warning signs.
There are physical and mental skills needed so you can drive efficiently and safely. Physically, you must have the proper body coordination between your eyes, hands, and feet. Mentally, you must be sharp enough to understand traffic signs and lights, judge the positioning of other motorists, and have a fast reaction time.
These physical and mental capabilities are compromised if you are under the influence of alcohol. This puts you at risk of traffic accidents, and worse, you may be putting the others around you in danger as well.
Damages from Drunk Driving
The most common injuries associated with traffic accidents include brain trauma, neck strain, spinal cord injury, and even death. Injuries also result into financial damages, in the form of medical costs, lost time at work, and loss of earning capability for a temporary or permanent time.
They may also result into pain and suffering, such as in the form of post-traumatic stress disorder, where victims will have flashbacks, nightmares, and hallucinations about the drunk driving accident, greatly affecting their enjoyment of life.
These damages can be devastating enough to greatly alter the life of victims. It is even worse if the victims are unsuspecting drivers and pedestrians who got involved because of your recklessness. In those instances, they may even file a personal injury case against you or you may be charged with DUI.
Consequences for driving under the influence of alcohol may vary depending on the state and jurisdiction. But they have the same idea. They may come in the form of fines, license suspensions, ignition interlocks, and even jail times. These penalties can reach thousands of dollars and may last for years.
According to the website of Truslow & Truslow, Attorneys at Law, DUI charges can be defended. But at the end of the day, you would not want to deal with courts and attorneys. It is better to just avoid drinking and driving. Avoidance does not just prevent legal matters, as it also prevents injuries, medical costs, and other damages that drunk driving can bring to you and to others.
There are three bones that make up the shoulder: the humerus, or the upper arm bone; the scapula, or the shoulder blade; and, the clavicle, which is the collarbone. The articular cartilage, a smooth substance that protects and enables the bones to move easily, covers the surfaces of these bones and, to eliminate any friction in the shoulder, the synovial membrane, which is a thin, smooth tissue, produces a small amount of fluid that lubricates the cartilage. All these, with the tendons and muscles surrounding the shoulder and providing stability and support, enable the shoulder to rotate and move in a great range of motion – greater than any other joint (or ball-and-socket) joint in the body.
Despite all the protection and support that provide stability, certain conditions and diseases cause shoulder bone fracture, destruction of the joint cartilage or destruction of the shoulder joint, resulting to inflammation, extreme joint pain or a limited range of shoulder motion. Some of the causes resulting to these shoulder injuries include:
- Avascular necrosis. This painful condition, which can lead to arthritis, occurs due to the disruption of blood supply to the bone;
- Osteoarthritis (Degenerative Joint Disease). This “wear and tear” type of arthritis is age-related;
- Rheumatoid Arthritis. This is a chronic inflammation that can damage the cartilage, eventually causing cartilage loss, stiffness and pain;
- Post-traumatic Arthritis. Besides causing shoulder pain, this type or arthritis, which usually follows a serious shoulder injury, also limits shoulder function;
- Severe fracture of the shoulder, which shatters the head of the upper arm bone;
These causes, including Rotator Cuff Tear Arthropathy and failed previous shoulder replacement surgery or failed revision surgery, are some of the major reasons why people necessitate shoulder replacement surgery.
Doctors recommended shoulder replacement surgery to their patients only if the more conservative methods no longer work. This surgery is intended to replace damaged parts of the shoulder with artificial components (called prosthesis). Some surgeries are aimed at replacing only the ball or the head of the humerus bone, or replacing the glenoid, or the ball and the socket.
Whichever part is replaced, this surgery guarantees relief from pain, and restoration of shoulder strength, motion and function.
While there are various manufacturers of shoulder replacement devices, the ones specifically designed by Wright Medical Technology, Inc. and Tornier, Inc. have become the focus of attention due to allegations that their devices are faulty, resulting to additional injuries in patients, significant bone loss, instability, weakness, unexplained pain, rising medical expenses, plus the need for corrective surgery.
Currently, patients who experience increased shoulder pain or limited mobility following the implantation of a Wright or Tornier shoulder replacement device have filed shoulder replacement lawsuits to fight for damages from the manufacturer. Needing to undergo a revision surgery, additional treatment, as well as removing the implant altogether due to badly designed implants is simply inexcusable.